If horoscopes are your thing, Jersey's favourite socialite Fenella Bond has the advice that each star sign needs to be lucky in love in 2025.
Here's what she had to say...
Hi babes,
I am sick. SICK AND TIRED of all these cosmologically and astrologically lost sheep wandering aimlessly into my inbox whilst I am trying to manifest an engagement ring from my bf!!! So, I thought to myself (in my very wise way) that we are long overdue a classic Fenella Bond Horoscope – you are SO welcome.
And, in honour of cuffing season (when everyone is in the mood to couple up so they’re not alone for the holidays) I thought I’d give everyone a little luuurrveee update on what you can expect romantically speaking in the coming months according to your sign...
DON'T: Be needy
DO: Give them space
My sweet Aquarius queen, you just have so much love to give, don’t you? Well don’t give it all at once because quite frankly it’s creepy... Your trouble is that you fall in and out of love too quickly so try and pace yourself next time around, okay? The right person will see you for your sweet self and then it won’t matter to them that you’re a bit intense... and clingy... and that you sometimes get crazy eyes when they don’t text you back...
DON'T: Text your ex
DO: Bottomless brunch
The nights are drawing in and we all need to spare a thought for the Pisces peeps in our lives. The cold, dark winter has a bad effect on you, Pisces and it causes amnesia – you forget all the horrible things your last situationship put you through and you risk it all for a cuddle on these long and lonely nights. PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER and take up knitting like everyone else who’s bored and cold.
DON'T: Dim your light
DO: Forgive and forget
Dumming yourself down so they like you more is a terrible tactic, Aries, and you know it. You’re never going to meet your match if you’re pretending to be someone you’re not. Don’t pretend to like Anime just to get a second date. Trust me when I say this (from experience) IT IS NOT WORTH IT.
DON'T: Push them away
DO: Tell them how you really feel
My sweet Spring child, you’ve got to get comfy in your truth, baby girl. Their needs are not more important than yours and it is high time you start believing that. The only person standing in the way of your own happiness is you... oh and your parents who cursed you with being an Earth sign. Poor thing.
DON'T: Even think about it
DO: Take a chill pill
You are always doing things for the plot, Gemini, and I love that about you. But when are you going to sit down and really think about what story you’re telling with all these wild nights and crazy escapades? Give yourself a break and start opening up... you never know what you might discover!
DON'T: Stalk their socials
DO: Keep your options open
Delete your apps. Put the phone down. Go outside. Touch some grass. Cancer, if no one else is going to say it – I will. They have moved on and you should too. If you’re going to spend all day cyberstalking their new girlfriend, then you need to have your phone confiscated and destroyed. Get with the programme!
DON'T: Hold a grudge
DO: Improve your karma
For some reason, ChatGPT *ahem* I mean THE STARS are telling me that yoU need to put some good vibes out into the world. If you want love, passion and success to come your way then you need to pay some of that forward, babes. Acts of kindness, good deeds, telling a friend not to cut a fringe – get some brownie points stored up and thank me later.
DON'T: Overthink it
DO: Say yes
Mercury is probably in retrograde at some point soon so don’t do anything too reckless, but you’ve been in a rut for the last little while and you need a shakeup. Get out of your own head and remind yourself who you are, Virgo. You are a strong, confident neat-freak who deserves love even if you are a bit controlling and obsessive!
DON'T: Be a pushover
DO: Put yourself first
Self-care is the name of the game if you’re wanting to take things to the next level in your love life this season, Libra. You’ve lost sight of the things that you love to please other people and that’s just not going to fly because *checks notes* the Moon won’t allow it. Don’t anger the moon!
DON'T: Just don’t
DO: Whatever you want, as per
I mean, is there any real point telling you what to do, Scorpy? I know your problems with authority are going to get in the way of you actually taking my advice so I guess just do whatever you want as usual...
DON'T: Settle for less than you deserve
DO: Go blonde
Push the boat out! Try new things! Dye your hair! Choose a colour you wouldn’t normally go for at the nail salon! Send food back at a restaurant! People will be attracted to your rebellious streak so really let that sparkle. Thank me later, you wily minx!
DON'T: Self-sabotage
DO: Live your best life
Capricorn, you are always working so hard and putting in your very best effort. So, my advice to you is stop trying so hard. Incredible stuff happens when you least expect it so maybe delete the dating apps, take your foot off the pedal and just see what surprises come your way.
Cosmically yours,
Fenella xxx
This article first appeared in the November edition of Connect Magazine which you can read in full below.